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Frequently Asked Questions about Black Domestic Discipline?


What can I expect if I join BlackDomesticDiscipline.com?

 We are building a community of people who 1. Practice Domestic Discipline 2. Are wanting to learn more about 3. Single, Heterosexual Men and Women who are looking to live in a healthy and loving Male lead relationship.

What is Domestic Discipline?

Domestic discipline is the practice between two consenting life partners in which the head of the household (HoH) takes the necessary measures to achieve a healthy relationship dynamic; the necessary measure to create a healthy home environmental and the necessary measures to protect all members of the family from dangerous or detrimental outcomes by punishing the contributing, and thus unwanted, behaviors for the greater good of the family. Basically, it's when the husband spanks the wife to help discipline her.

Is this Domestic Violence?

Domestic Discipline (DD) is not the same as domestic violence. DD -- true DD -- is not abusive. Domestic Violence is chaotic and dangerous. It is associated with bruses, broken bones or blood shed. Domestic Discipline does none of that and is loving correction. In a DD relationship the husband is only spanking the woman on the butt. Kind of like when you discipline your child to help them stay out of trouble. Domestic Discipline is biblical (Check out ChrsitianDomesticDiscipline.com for biblical resources). Discipline works, it has always worked throughout history because people learn from pain.

Why Would A Grown Woman Need to Be Spanked for Discipline?

This is an easy one. Look at the state of women right now. I'm sure you can agree that we are lost. Especially Black women. Just because the woman is in an adult body doesn't means she acts like an adult. These women I like to refer to as adult children. They throw tantrums, they curse you out, They snap at you when you call them out on something they did wrong, they have bad spending habits, etc .These are the actions of children. Domestic Discipline will make the woman think twice before behaving badly.

Is this BDSM, or a Fetish or Masochism or Something?

Domestic Discipline is a tool is used to correct bad behaviors. So more likely it's not going to work if the woman likes pain for sexual arousal. While it is true that the D in BDSM stands for Discipline, there is an element of discipline in BDSM. To me there is not anything wrong with BDSM, to each His own, but DD is a practice more for correcting bad, dangerous or reckless behaviors. Now I know people can get turned on about things like this and that is ok (and the make up sex can be great afterwards :) But again the main purpose is to correct bad behaviors.

Who Spanks the Man?

Who spanked your parents when they spanked you? I would only recommend this practice for responsible, well-balanced men who take care of their business and their households. If the man is not disciplined, he is not in a place to discipline anyone else. The man should have a strong interest in following the Laws of God or some moral code.


Yahshell, Why are you so open about Domestic Discipline?

I thought long and hard before going public about this topic. I felt like it was my duty to help save marriages. I was tired of seeing relationships end and keeping this private would mean that I'm selfish. I can say that Domestic Discipline definitely saved my marriage.


Are You Planning to Write a Book on Domestic Discipline?

Yes. I already have actually. I am in the process of getting the artwok and pictures taken for it. In this book I will list all my references and testimonials. Should be out some time this year.


Isn't this embarrassing? Aren't you Ashamed?

No. I am proud of my life style, it has saved my marriage and the marriages of many others I chose to sacrifice my ego in order to do my part in saving my people.


How long have you been practicing and do you feel this is something you could continue doing this forever?

My husband and I have been practicing DD for about 4 or 5 years. Although right now I feel this is something I could do forever, If I got to the point where I knew deep down that I don't need discipline anymore and my actions show it we would stop. We would have the conversation and  there would be no more DD as he is a very understanding man who wants to maintain the success of our relationship.


How did you find out about this lifestyle and what made you decided you wanted to consent to this?

I was never into movies like 50 Shades of Grey. But when that movie came out I did like the idea of spankings and discipline. I decided to consent to DD because I knew I could use the extra dicsipline in budgeting the money better, being more respectful to my husband etc. So I started to google discipline and adult spankings. I then ran across Domestic Discipline...never turned back since!

Is this practice tied to your religious beliefs?

Although I don't consider myself a religious person, I did run across sites like ChristianDomesticDiscipline.net that teaches people biblical passages that support the practice. I'm not against Christian, Muslim or any other religion in Domesitc Discipline as long as it is helping to advance the health of the relationship and both parites.


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